NCIS’ Star Mark Harmon Shared the Unique Way He First Asked Out Wife Pam Dawber

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Throughout his time on NCIS, Mark Harmon made a memorable impression on fans as he portrayed Leroy Jethro Gibbs. Although his character had some heartbreaking experiences when it came to love and family, he was lucky to have quite a different experience with his wife of 37 years, actress Pam Dawber.

While Pam appeared on her husband’s former TV show when playing a “seasoned investigative journalist” named Marcie Warren back in 2021, longtime TV sitcom fans know that the actress was queen of the small screen back in the 1980s. Pam starred alongside Robin Williams in the Happy Days spinoff Mork & Mindy and was later on the sitcom My Sister Sam. Around the same time, Mark was also gaining popularity thanks to roles on the prime time soap opera Flamingo Road and medical drama St. Elsewhere. Mark was also named People’s “Sexiest Man Alive” in 1986

As for how the couple met, Closer Weekly reported the two were introduced by a mutual friend in the mid-80s — and the rest, as they say, is history. Mark later revealed to People in November 2023 how said friend initially wanted to have them meet in a group setting, but that didn’t exactly sit well with him. Instead, he chose to cold call Pam and ask her out directly, leading to a lifetime of love.

“I said, ‘Can I just call? Can I get a number and just cold call?’ And so I did,” he told the outlet. “I got the number, and I called, and I got an answering machine. And I started to leave a message that said, ‘We don’t have to all go out. We could get a cup of coffee or something.’ And then she was monitoring and she picked up. We went out that night and we’re together ever since.”